Lots of women enjoy sex and like to try out new positions with their partner but find it hard to achieve an orgasm very often. If this sounds like you, then read on to discover the best sex positions to help you reach the climax that you’ve been dreaming of.
When it comes to achieving a mind-blowing orgasm, simplicity is often the key. In this version of the missionary position, the woman puts a couple of pillows or cushions underneath her bottom so that her hips are raised up. This allows for deeper penetration and also the positioning of the groin makes it easier for her clitoris to be stimulated by her partner as he enters her. Many women favour a missionary-style position as they feel especially turned on with their man’s weight upon them.
The Kitchen Table Romp
Sometimes simply taking sex out of the bedroom can help increase excitement and make it more likely for the woman to orgasm, so for this position make your way to the kitchen. You will need a table that isn’t too high so that the man’s waist is at table-top height. The woman lies down flat on the table edge whilst her partner enters her, holding on to either her hips or waist depending on how tall he is. As he is standing, the man’s hands are free to roam her body meaning that he can stimulate her clitoris at the same time and he could also massage in some lubricant to help her to climax sooner.
When a woman is on top it enables her to feel in control of the position, as well as in control of her orgasm. She can alter the rhythm, the angle and the depth of penetration to suit her preferences and there is also something very sexy about being in control, which should help to heighten her feelings of eroticism in this position. With her hands free, she can massage her breasts or stimulate her own clitoris with her fingers or a sex toy just the way she likes it to bring on her climax.
Against the Wall
This is a favourite position for a quickie and a great way to surprise her when she gets home from work. She should have the top of her back to the wall, resting on it for support, whilst leaning her hips forward and wrapping one leg around her partner to allow him to enter her (she may need to change legs every now and again). Both partners can alter the speed or depth of penetration and with her hips forward and in an upright position, this should maximise friction against her G-spot to hopefully bring her closer to orgasm.
Using a chair for sex can be a great prop and as well as the support it gives, it can also be a huge turn-on depending on where it is located and with the risk of being caught by unsuspecting eyes! Whether you are at home or in the office, find a chair that has a back and is not too bulky as to allow you to get into position easier. The man should be seated, facing forward and she should straddle him, with legs either side of the chair. Ideally her feet should touch the ground to give her leverage to push up and down at her own pace – this way she can receive maximum penetration as she rocks her hips forward and holds onto his shoulders for support.